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Aimee's Romance Corner

How to spot the confirmed bachelor.   Today some of the issues surrounding getting someone to "pop" the question are really vast.   How does one know if there is a future in store for them?   Are there 'signs" to let you know that this person, male or female, is not interested in a lifetime commitment? 

Yes, I know we married for life and then divorce happened.  I have a theory about that also.  The vows say "... until death do us part".   We all thought it was the physical death of our partner.  However, I think it was really the death of the relationship.  It make sense to me as I look around the net, on single sites, I  see one singles that were married multiple times.  I see singles that are just divorced and the never married singles. 

Single life is a mixed bag of endless scenarios.  

So how do you know if the person you are dating is serious about entering into a committed relationship with a goal of living together and marriage?    What are the signs?  Are there signs?

There are obvious things to watch for when looking for a partner, here is a short list.

• Never been married and over the age of 45
• Never had a long term relationship
• Does not make decisions easily
• Shops around endlessly for large or small ticket items
• Commitment is a word not in the persons vocabulary
• Never had a live-in relationship that lasted.
• Never had a live-in relationship

Do you know someone like this?   Are you dating someone like this?  Are you satisfied? If you are then you are in the right relationship.  If, however, you are not satisfied and think that you will be "the one" to make the difference and you have observed all of the above signs.  Who are you fooling?

I know it is wonderful to find a partner with the same aspirations you have for a future. Whether it is to date and see each other randomly or if you have your sights set on marriage/living together.  There are those that meet the man or woman and you both share the same aspirations.  I know I have met many of them. 

What are your thoughts on this subject?  Send me an email  Aimee

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BODY LANGUAGE IS A STATEMENT OF HOW YOU SEE YOURSELF

Are you aware of your body language?  What about the inflection in your voice?    Be honest with yourself, think of the reactions that others have towards you.  Is this what you want to bring to a relationship?  Is this how you want to be treated?

 It is a control issue as you have the power over this facet of your life.  Initiating a plan of action that will make a difference in your outlook on life and yourself. Then you can move on to the next step, which is putting action to your decision to create a new self-image.

 Examine daily vocabulary.  Take some time to listen to your self speaking to the people in my life.  I had found that my vocabulary usage influenced my life in a dramatic way.  By altering my vocabulary, to include words of a more positive nature, a more loving gradually helped me to improve my self-esteem.   I  created a list of words that I wanted to start using on a daily basis. This list helped me to maintain focus on the positive attitude that I wanted to own. Try it yourself.

The power the words held on me created a image of who I was to the outside world.  Most importantly it created the image I was to me as well.   Once I started to be totally honest I had to admit that I was very negative. I  started to change my vocabulary to include more positive words.    At first I changed just a few words at a time.  Then it becomes reality for you in everything you do each day.  It is easy as anything worthwhile is easy to bring it into your life. 

                                               Appreciate, make it your reality.

Do you have any ideas on how you could start this in your life?  Are you willing to change your negative vocabulary to reflect a more positive self-image?   Send me your story  I will post them here. You can be an inspiration to someone who is in need as you were at one point. 

Think about this:
  If you always do what you have always done;  you will always get the results you have always gotten.

SUCCESS IS  AN ATTITUDE ADJUSTMENT !

 
See yourself in a new way !

Ongoing quest for information

Aimee, your romance advisor.  Do you have a question that you want to ask? 
Then sent it to Aimee   She will answer your question in short order.  Right now Aimee has a question for you to answer.

Q: How do you handle a romance that is cooling off after a fast start? 
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Q:  When a woman meets a man and you go out 2 or 3 times, suddenly you do not hear from him any more, what has happened? 

Send in your thoughts

Send you answers to: Been there - here is my advice

Answers will be posted on the self esteem page, come back and see what others have to say  on the topic. 

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